Moments of Reflection

Moments of Reflection

Choosing Your Battles: Learning to Let Go for Improved Mental Health

Battle Selection: A Strategy

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Klara Kernig
Jul 06, 2023
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Life is often compared to a battlefield. We find ourselves constantly fighting; for respect, recognition, and rights. But what happens when we step back and weigh up whether the battles we are fighting are really worth our energy?

We've all been there. Engrossed in heated conversations that leave us exhausted and emotionally drained. We keep throwing punches till we're blue in the face, hoping to conquer the battlefield. But at what cost?

Ironically, it's like walking into a storm expecting not to get drenched. But nature always has its way, and so does life.

The trick is to know which battles to pick. Some might call it surrender, I call it wisdom. It's an art that needs mastering. It comes with experience, patience, and a lot of self-love.

Let's get into it.

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