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Healthy habits that other may think are selfish

Empowering Yourself to Prioritize Your Well-being Without Guilt or Shame

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Klara Kernig
Mar 09, 2023
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When we think of healthy habits, we usually think of good things like being disciplined, taking care of ourselves, and being responsible for our own health.

But sometimes, these habits might make other people think you're being selfish. This can make us feel guilty, ashamed, or even pressured by our peers, which can make us give up on our healthy habits.

This article will talk about healthy habits that others may think are selfish, how to respond when someone calls you selfish for a healthy habit, how to stick to your habits even when others think they are selfish, positive affirmations to remind you that your habits are healthy and not selfish, and self-reflection questions to help you figure out why you are so afraid of being seen as selfish even when you know you aren't.

Examples of Healthy Habits That Others May Find Selfish

To be healthy, you have to take care of yourself, but some people might think your healthy habits are selfish, mean, or even rude. Here are some examples of healthy habits that others may label as selfish:

  1. Spending time alone can help you recharge, reduce stress, and get more done. Some people, though, might think it's selfish, especially if it means spending less time with friends and family.

  2. Setting boundaries is an important part of keeping relationships healthy, but some people might see it as selfish if they think you aren't meeting their expectations of what you should do.

  3. Not following the news: Being bombarded with negative news can be overwhelming and increase feelings of stress and anxiety. Yet, some people might find it selfish not to follow the news and be uninformed or disconnected from current events and problems. 

  4. Pursuing personal goals like starting a business, pursuing a hobby, or traveling can help you feel alive and excited. But people who value stability and security more than personal growth and adventure might think it's selfish.

  5. Taking time for self-care like exercise, meditation, and getting enough sleep is important for your overall health. Still, it can be seen as selfish, especially if they keep you from being available to others. Taking care of yourself, on the other hand, is important for your physical and mental health.

How to Respond to Someone Calling You Selfish for Your Healthy Habit

Remember that your healthy habits are not selfish, and you have every right to put your own health first. Here are some ideas for what to say when someone calls you selfish for taking care of yourself:

  • Stay calm and confident in your values: Don't get angry or defensive. Instead, stay calm and confident that you made the right choice to consider your health and well-being.

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