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Signs You May Have Reached Your Limit

and How to Reconnect with Yourself After Years of Suppressing Your Needs

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Klara Kernig
Sep 17, 2024
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There comes a point in many of our lives where we feel a deep sense of disconnection—not just from others, but from ourselves. Maybe you’ve been putting everyone else first for as long as you can remember, tending to their needs, making sure they’re happy, and convincing yourself you don’t need that much. You’ve become so skilled at pushing your needs down, ignoring your limits, and staying strong for others that it’s become second nature.

But here’s the thing—there’s a cost to that.

For those of us who have spent years ignoring our own limits, the signs that we’ve reached them can feel unfamiliar. It’s easy to convince ourselves that we’re fine when we’re not. But our bodies and minds tell us when we’re at capacity, even if we’re not listening.

Let’s explore a few signs that you may have reached your limit—and more importantly, how to begin reconnecting with yourself, your needs, and your limits without losing the empathy and care for others that you value so deeply.

Just like Teddy knows when it's time to slow down and enjoy the moment, we can all learn to recognize when we’ve reached our limit and need a break. Reconnecting with ourselves often starts with small, peaceful moments like this.

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